Oh there are definitely times. From a purely sexual point of view, I'm not getting any younger and sometimes the spirit is willing but the flesh is unable. From a BDSM perspective, I'm a switch, Samantha is a Dominant and Lucy is a submissive, and that's how Lucy and I ended up playing together in the first place because Sam cannot submit, she tried and we were both miserable. That started off non-sexual and progressed.

Our relationship is constantly in flux and evolving, it's a living organism. Samantha, especially, is always very careful to monitor how we're all doing and makes sure we communicate and make any needed changes. For example, when I retired and was spending all day, every day, with Lucy while Samantha was at work, she was getting jealous so we took the time to sit down, work things through, and make sure Sam got to spend time with both of us, and each of us, during the week.

We date - in all various pairings as well as in the threesome. Sam & I have a regular weekly lunch date, Lucy & I do, Lucy & Sam do - we have family time on a Sunday, we have date night on a Friday. And yes, Sam & I have sex without Lucy, Lucy & I do without Sam, and the girls do without me. Sometimes it's kinky, sometimes it's not... sometimes it's just a kiss and a cuddle. It all depends on who needs what at any given time.