jackjanderson: (Fishing)
I've never kept a secret of the fact that there is a BDSM aspect of the relationship between Samantha, Lucy and I. It's how we met Lucy in the first place. But I've never sat down and talked about it with you.

A lot of people have preconceived notions of what that means, of how our relationships work, about the kind of sex we have, about the types of things we enjoy - and maybe you do too. The truth is it's also probably nothing like what you're imagining. I'm not entirely sure how much sense this is going to make but I'm going to try and shed a light on some of this.behind this cut to spare those who aren't interested )

I don't know if that does really explain or clarify things but it's something I've been wanting to write about for a while. It's a pretty important part of who I am, who we are, how we work and our relationships so it felt important to blog about it.

I'm also thinking about maybe - if I can figure out these custom access lists and anyone would be interested in hearing about it - writing about some of our adventures.
jackjanderson: (Rey)
I'm actually amused how 'changing the wifi password' so that Lucy & I can't get online has become Samantha's punishment of choice. She's right that coming online during the day is what's stopping us from completing our set tasks but even so. It makes me a sad pouty Jack.

We won't even cover the sex ban.

I'm now allowed online of an evening as long as everything's done during the day. Lucy still isn't so if you've not seen her update in a while that's why.

I'm playing catch up on my emails right now. I had over 100 and I've got it down to 60. Next up is catching up on anyone's blogs.

Lesson learned. Work first, then play.

About Me

I'm Jack, a recent retiree looking for a new hobby. Apparently 'annoying my girlfriend' isn't the best use of my days. Her opinion, not mine

I'm a life-long science-fiction and superheroes fan, and a voracious reader. I enjoy movies, fishing, astronomy, and gardening.

I live in Wales with my wife, our girlfriend and an ever growing collection of four-legged friends.

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