jackjanderson: (The Long & Winding Road)
I'm always happy to talk about my girls and I think most of you have been around here long enough to know our situation but for those who don't, here we go.

I am in a polyamorous triad with two women - my wife Samantha and our girlfriend Lucy, although we generally think of her as being part of the marriage as well. We've exchanged rings and if the opportunity ever arose for a marriage to include another person, we'd jump straight away. The three of us have been together for the best part of a decade. Samantha and I have been married for almost 15 years, were dating for 5 years before that and have known each other since the late 90s.

I met Lucy in 2010, we had a sexual bdsm relationship for a couple of months. She knew I was married. Samantha watched a number of times and also joined in. We started spending time together outside of that, and Samantha & I realised we were both developing feelings for Lucy. We sat down and talked about it, just the two of us and then with Lucy. 6 months later, Lucy moved in with us. That was in 2011.

If there's anything else you'd like to know about it, feel free to ask.
jackjanderson: (Fishing)
Apparently continuing on with my self-care theme and mostly inspired by yesterday's post - thinking about what makes me happy, about what makes me smile.

1) My wife's smile. When something really excites her, she beams. She has dimples, her whole face lights up and she smiles from ear to ear. It's infectious and always makes me smile.

2) When Lucy doesn't realise she's being watched, and she's dancing and singing as she cleans. A mop makes a good microphone stand!

3) The successes my son has in his career. I'm very proud of what he's accomplished. Something to do with computers that I don't understand Wat all!

4) A rousing uplifting piece of music. Jupiter, from Gustav Holst's Planet Suite is one such piece. I can't not hum along.

5) Manchester City winning.

6) An evening spent with a good coffee, a good book, my girls, my dog and some good music playing. Best way to spend an evening

7) Receiving a thorough spanking. Falling into subspace and flying on endorphins.

8) Playing with the dogs. I'm never too old to roughhouse on the floor with them. Sure I may need help getting back up again these days but that doesn't stop it being a whole lot of fun

9) Superhero movies. I love both Marvel and DC and as an old-school geek it makes my heart swell how popular they still are

10) Winning a game of monopoly. Because we're old and boring, the three of us love to spend an afternoon playing boardgames and monopoly has always been a favourite. I'm competitive by nature and winning makes me feel good

About Me

I'm Jack, a recent retiree looking for a new hobby. Apparently 'annoying my girlfriend' isn't the best use of my days. Her opinion, not mine

I'm a life-long science-fiction and superheroes fan, and a voracious reader. I enjoy movies, fishing, astronomy, and gardening.

I live in Wales with my wife, our girlfriend and an ever growing collection of four-legged friends.

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